Just thinking about it recently has brought up all these visceral memories. There are times when visceral memories are really great. Like smelling the hot fudge when you walk into the ice cream store in the small resort town your family went to on vacation when you were a kid. Or for me, watching major dance companies or musical theater. I used to be a professional dancer and when I see great dancers, my body remembers and feels what it is like to move that way, to feel the emotion you're projecting through your movements, feel the energy from the audience, etc.
The emotions I've been feeling lately have not been that pleasant. As I've started to think about where to even begin telling my story, all these vignettes keep popping into my head. Like the panic I felt every time I went to the bathroom and discovered that there was something clearly wrong. My cat, Thomas O'Malley Found in the Alley, becoming my best friend and comforter. My water breaking at school and taking the train home. Walking back and forth between my bedroom and the bathroom, trying to find a place to be comfortable during full blown labor while trying to be quiet and not wake anyone up. The fear of going to see him while I was in the hospital; the complete incompetency I felt inside completely overwhelming the intense love I felt for him. Going to sign the papers...well, that's a whole can of worms in and of itself.
The one good memory I have is when they put my son in my arms for the first (and only) time. I was shocked at how beautiful he was, saw the clef in his chin that he got from his father and remember telling him not to suck his thumb because there was no way I could afford braces. I wish I had more memories like that.